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Rev. Dr. Joshua W. Speights Jr. & First Lady Rubbie Speights

Pastor Joshua W. Speights, Jr., D.R.S.

A Servant Leader Rooted in Faith, Proven in Service

Born to the late Rev. Joshua W. Speights, Sr. and Ms. Eular Lumpkins, Pastor Joshua Speights, Jr. has devoted his life to faith, family, and fearless leadership. From his earliest days, Pastor Speights felt the call of Christ, accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior in his youth—a decision that would shape every step of his extraordinary journey.

A 1971 graduate of the Blytheville, Arkansas, school system, Pastor Speights enlisted in the United States Navy that same year, answering a higher call to serve. He rose through the ranks to become a Chief Warrant Officer, serving honorably for 22 years, including a tour in Vietnam and assignments worldwide. A decorated veteran, Pastor Speights attributes his survival and success to God’s sustaining power and unexplainable grace.

In 1975, Pastor Speights was licensed to preach the Gospel by his father, planting the seeds of a lifelong ministry. Guided by God’s hand, he married the love of his life, Ms. Rubbie Cole, in 1977. Their marriage, rooted in prayer, partnership, and purpose, has flourished for nearly five decades. Sister Rubbie Speights, now First Lady, accepted Christ in 1976 and has walked faithfully beside her husband in ministry ever since.

Together, they raised two children—Niesha and Joshua III—both of whom continue to reflect their parents’ values of faith, family, and service. Pastor and First Lady Speights are proud grandparents to Chloe, Josiah, and Weldon, witnessing God's faithfulness across generations.

Ordained in Pearl Harbor, Hawaii, in 1983, Pastor Speights began his formal pastoral journey at Calvary Baptist Church in Waipahu. Military transfers led him to serve in various associate roles in California, Italy, and Washington, D.C., enriching his spiritual leadership with cultural breadth and a global perspective. While stationed in Naples, Italy, he also supported his family through transitions, including First Lady Speights’ entry into the workforce.

After retiring from military service in 1993, Pastor Speights continued serving with distinction in both ministry and government. His pastoral assignments included leadership roles at First Baptist Church in Leesburg and Dale City Christian Church before answering God’s call to Neabsco Baptist Church in Woodbridge, Virginia, in 2007.

Now in his 17th year as Senior Pastor of Neabsco Baptist Church, Pastor Speights has led with visionary faith and unwavering strength. Under his leadership, the church completed Phase I of a $15 million expansion—a magnificent $8.5 million sanctuary that seats 700, equipped with modern ministry resources including a fellowship hall, multimedia room, classrooms, nursery, and kitchen. Groundbreaking took place in 2016, and by September 2017, the congregation had entered its new spiritual home. Phase II—an on-campus gymnasium and office complex—is on the horizon.

Pastor Speights’ influence extends beyond the local church. He has served as President of the Baptist Ministers’ Conference of Northern Virginia and the Baptist Ministers, Deacons, and Laymen’s Union of Northern Virginia. He is a respected member of both the Northern Virginia Baptist Association, Inc., and the Hampton Ministers' Conference.

An academic as well as a shepherd, Pastor Speights holds multiple degrees:
  • Associate of Science in Electronics Technology, Gavilan College
  • Bachelor of Arts and Master of Science in Management, National Louis University
  • Master of Science in Information Technology Management, Colorado Technical University
  • Master of Divinity in Pastoral Ministry, Trinity College of the Bible and Theological Seminary
  • Doctor of Religious Studies, Trinity College (awarded in 2019)

Pastor Speights’ calling is clear: to preach the Gospel with conviction, to lead God’s people with integrity, and to build a legacy of faith that glorifies Jesus Christ.

He does not lead alone—his wife and partner in ministry, First Lady Rubbie Speights, stands steadfast beside him. A member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., First Lady Speights is a passionate educator, holding a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from Park University and a Master of Education from George Mason University. Together, they serve as living witnesses to what God can do through a couple wholly committed to His will.

First Lady Rubbie Speights

May your journey be guided by strength, rooted in history, and filled with unexpected blessings

First Lady Rubbie Speights was born on July 13, in Blytheville, Arkansas, where she attended the Blytheville Public School System. In 1977, she married Joshua W. Speights Jr., and together they have been blessed with two children, Niesha Andrea Speights and Joshua Wendell Speights III and Daughter-In-Love to Shannon Speights.

A lifelong learner, Mrs. Speights has pursued higher education with distinction. She earned a Master of Education degree from George Mason University, a bachelor's degree in Psychology from Park University, and an Associate of Applied Science degree in Criminal Justice from Northern Virginia Community College.

Mrs. Speights dedicated her professional career to educating and mentoring young people as a teacher in the Prince William County Public Schools. During her years of service, she taught at Rippon Middle School, Potomac Middle School and Benton Middle School, where she retired after years of faithfully serving students and their families.

In 2005, Mrs. Speights became a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, where she continues to exemplify the sorority's commitment to sisterhood, scholarship, service, and social action.

Mrs. Speights is an active member and First Lady of Neabsco Baptist Church, where she faithfully serves alongside her husband in ministry. She is passionate about encouraging others in their walk with Christ and supporting the church through leadership, service, and outreach.
Mrs. Speights is the proud grandmother of Chloe Speights, Josiah Burno, and Wendell Josiah Speights; as well as the delighted great-grandmother of Karter Pugh, all of whom bring great joy to her life.

In her leisure time, Mrs. Speights enjoys studying African American History, studying and understanding the Bible, spending time with family and close friends. She is known for her servant's heart, her love of education, her commitment to ministry, and her unwavering devotion to faith, family, and community.